This is an open letter to young adults. Those that have moved beyond high school. This will sound harsh but I say it with love. I also want you to know that this comes from a bleeding heart liberal. One who votes to extend support and assistance.

Get over it! Life is hard, it takes hard work, sacrifice and patience. Nothing is freely given. FIA, WIC, unemployment and other assistance programs are there to help get on your feet. Not something you should live on. I think we have made it to easy for you, to your own detriment. I know there are hard working young people out there. But I also know there are some of you caught up in stagnation. Waiting for something to be handed to you.

That isn't how it works. If you are young and able, then work. If you need to work at home depot during the day and McDonald's at night then do it. If you need to walk or take a bus to the local community college then do it. If you have kids, I understand you want to be there for your kids and you should be. But that isn't an excuse for not working. I know single mothers have it particular hard and I pray for you to have all the support you need. This is mostly to those young couples with kids. I know its tough to have kids, but if you are a two parent home then figure it out. Work alternate schedules or whatever works for your family. Again stop waiting for the world to hand you something.

We all did it. Was it easy, No!! Did we do it perfectly, absolutely not. We made mistakes, but we kept plowing forward. Making sacrifices, making choices and continuing to grow, learn and make things better.

We all have problems, issues and challenges. Money issues, relationship issues, health issues, etc.... We all continue to work, continue to move forward. My mom is 70 years old, she has fought and clawed her way, her whole life. She has diabetes and knee problems. She goes to work, she stays active, she tries to help those around her. I know others with different health problems, they still go to work or school or both everyday.

Maybe you are reading this and I think "she has no idea". You are right, I don't. I don't know the challenges some of you face. But I do know the challenges I have faced. I do see the challenges some of you face. I see some of you working hard, moving forward. But I also see some of you stagnating. Getting stuck in a holding pattern, waiting for something that may never come.

I know this sounds harsh, but it is reality. I hope you hear this with a sense of how much I care, wanting you to have a life filled with purpose and fulfillment.

I sound like a bitty old woman, maybe I am. I don't think so though. I see too many young adults who are stuck and it is frustrating!! Please accept this in the way intended, with love and hope to motivate.

Prayers, love and grace to all!!